• Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar

ask.fundsforngos.org

You are here: Home / Fundraising / Why Do Donors Hate Me?

Why Do Donors Hate Me?

Dated: September 24, 2020

Many small, grassroots, and start-up NGOs eagerly look for their first grant to grow their program. But after sending out dozens of request for funding by post and email to scores of donors they either never hear back or are rejected.

Here are some of the main reasons you get ignored or rejected:

Donors get a high volume of applications and can only fund a fraction even of those who meet all their requirements.

When we researched funding by the UN Democracy Fund (UNDEF), we found that in 2015 they received over 2,300 applications but only awarded 50 grants. This means only 2 of every 100 applicants were successful. A success rate of 2% is quite usual with the larger, more well-known donors – so you are not the only NGO getting rejected. The success rate for smaller or less well-known donors is often much higher, so keep this in mind when applying.

You didn’t follow the instructions.

Most donors have specific instructions on how to apply. This includes countries and topics funded, the minimum and maximum amount of the grant; the type of application form; page limits; submission deadlines; and much more. If you don’t follow these exactly you will be rejected.

You apply to the wrong donor.

Many NGOs think they can send any donor they have ever run across an application and some of these will stick. This is the so-called “shotgun” approach. In reality, nothing could be further from the truth. With over 300,000 institutional donors around the world, you will only reach a very small percentage of all donors and most of the ones you do reach will not be a good match. Your chance of success using this approach is basically zero. Much better would be to spend the time and effort to research donors that are a good fit with your NGO and focus your energy on those select few.

You ask for money in an introductory email.

Short one-line emails asking for funding will never be successful. Cold emails to a donor you have never met that attach 30-page proposals also are unlikely to ever be read. Make sure you only contact those

donors that are a good fit. Don’t ask for money immediately, but rather first ask some questions and develop a relationship.

You give up after the first try.

If you have an NGO doing great work and a donor is a good fit, it will still not ensure funding. Getting a donor to fund you takes time, effort and a lot of persistence. Don’t give up too quickly. Contact them again a bit later. See if there is a different approach that might work. It can sometimes take years before you succeed with a specific donor.

You have low capacity to fundraise.

If you don’t know the basic techniques of fundraising like proper donor research, engaging and networking, and developing high-quality proposals, you will not succeed. There are many resources available online or even in your community that can build your capacity and put you on a road to success. Fundsforngos.org is one such online resource, but you can also ask your successful peers in other organizations how they succeed.

You think you deserve funding.

While your project may be very important and worthwhile, it is competing with many other fantastic projects around the world. There are no guarantees for any NGO that they will be funded, no matter the project. The donor does not owe you anything. Putting effort and dedication into your fundraising efforts is required.

You are not putting in the hard work.

Fundraising is not rocket science, but it does require constant effort. You may be tempted to take the easy way out or focus more on other things. There are no shortcuts in fundraising and you will have to allocate significant time and effort to it to get a grant. You can also not outsource the hard work to someone else.

In reality, donors do not hate you. But donors may overlook the value your NGO offers because you have not effectively proven to donors that your NGOs does indeed have value. This is a tough lesson to learn, but one which will greatly advance your fundraising success.

Primary Sidebar

What are the biggest pitfalls when applying for the South West Enterprise Fund Business Grant in the UK?

What do NGOs often overlook when applying for the UNDP’s PASBET Pilot Demonstration Units grant in Pakistan?

What are the hidden challenges NGOs face when applying for the President’s Fund for Creativity in Malta?

What are the hidden pitfalls of applying for the Ryde Community Grants Programme in the UK?

How can NGOs effectively apply for the 5th Sustainable Development Awards 2026 in Namibia? What are the common pitfalls to avoid?

What are the hidden challenges of applying for the Research Grants for Latin Music Studies?

What are the key pitfalls to avoid when applying for the European Commission’s Rail Infrastructure Projects on the TEN-T Core Network grant?

What are the hidden challenges in applying for the Latin GRAMMY Cultural Foundation Research Grant?

What are common pitfalls NGOs face when applying for the 2026 Coal Research Project grant?

What are the hidden pitfalls NGOs face when applying for the ‘Coal Accompanying Measures’ grant?

What do NGOs often overlook when applying for the European Commission’s Sustainable Steel Research Grant?

Is the European Defence Industry Programme’s Ground and Naval Defence Platforms grant really worth applying for? What should NGOs know before diving in?

What do most NGOs miss when applying for the Unmanned Systems Industrial Support Fund 2027?

Is the PW AI Startup Challenge 2026 worth the effort? What do most applicants get wrong?

Is the EforAll Business Accelerator Program the right fit for early-stage entrepreneurs? What should applicants really know before applying?

What do NGOs often overlook when applying for the Maternal Health Emergency Management Training grant in the U.S.?

What is the most common mistake NGOs make when applying for the SheConnects Digital Accelerator: Africa Round 2 funding?

What crucial steps do NGOs often overlook when applying for the ‘Partnerships for Women’s Digital Empowerment at Scale’ grant?

What are the common pitfalls NGOs face when applying for the Eureka Call’s Disaster Resilience, Response, and Recovery Projects 2026?

What are the common pitfalls NGOs face when applying for the UK Space Agency’s Earth Observation InCubed Programme grant?

What do most event agencies overlook when applying for the UNICEF Malaysia ‘Festival of Rights 2026’ grant?

What are the hidden challenges of applying for the Global Citizen and PayPal Small Business Impact Awards?

What are the critical mistakes NGOs make when applying for the i-MEC Medical Technology Innovation Call in India?

Is the Open Innovation for Hospitality Programme the right fit for startups in the hospitality sector looking to innovate in Portugal?

What should young African leaders know before applying for the ACET Youth Policy Lab 2026?

©FUNDSFORNGOS LLC.   fundsforngos.org, fundsforngos.ai, and fundsforngospremium.com domains and their subdomains are the property of FUNDSFORNGOS, LLC 140 Broadway 46th Floor, New York, NY 10005, United States.   Unless otherwise specified, this website is not affiliated with the abovementioned organizations. The material provided here is solely for informational purposes and without any warranty. Visitors are advised to use it at their discretion. Read the full disclaimer here. Privacy Policy. Cookie Policy.

Manage Consent
To provide the best experiences, we use technologies like cookies to store and/or access device information. Consenting to these technologies will allow us to process data such as browsing behavior or unique IDs on this site. Not consenting or withdrawing consent, may adversely affect certain features and functions.
Functional Always active
The technical storage or access is strictly necessary for the legitimate purpose of enabling the use of a specific service explicitly requested by the subscriber or user, or for the sole purpose of carrying out the transmission of a communication over an electronic communications network.
Preferences
The technical storage or access is necessary for the legitimate purpose of storing preferences that are not requested by the subscriber or user.
Statistics
The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for statistical purposes. The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for anonymous statistical purposes. Without a subpoena, voluntary compliance on the part of your Internet Service Provider, or additional records from a third party, information stored or retrieved for this purpose alone cannot usually be used to identify you.
Marketing
The technical storage or access is required to create user profiles to send advertising, or to track the user on a website or across several websites for similar marketing purposes.
  • Manage options
  • Manage services
  • Manage {vendor_count} vendors
  • Read more about these purposes
View preferences
  • {title}
  • {title}
  • {title}